Thursday, 22 October 2026

Golu Decoration for Navratri: Rajee Ramani’s Beautiful Display of the Panch Mahabhuta

 

When Tradition Meets Creativity: A Beautiful Navratri Golu Display

Festivals have a special way of bringing people together. They fill our homes with colour, our hearts with devotion, and our everyday surroundings with a little extra magic. Sometimes, however, it is not a grand community celebration or an elaborate event that catches our attention. It is the creativity, patience and passion of one person that makes a festival truly memorable.

This Navratri, I had the pleasure of admiring a beautiful Golu display created by Rajee Ramani, a resident of our Orchid Harmony Society. Her presentation was not merely an arrangement of dolls, figurines and decorative elements. It was a thoughtfully planned artistic expression inspired by the Panch Mahabhuta — the five fundamental elements of nature.

Looking at her display, I was reminded that our festivals are not just occasions to follow traditions. They also give us opportunities to learn, create, experiment and discover new dimensions of ourselves.

What Is Golu Decoration During Navratri?

Golu, also known as Kolu or Bommai Golu, is a traditional festive display of dolls and figurines arranged in tiers during Navratri. The tradition is particularly popular in Tamil Nadu, Karnataka and Andhra Pradesh, although its beauty and appeal are increasingly appreciated in other parts of India too.

The steps of a Golu display may feature deities, mythological characters, scenes from everyday life, animals, miniature houses, temples and representations of Indian culture. Families often bring out their treasured collections year after year, sometimes adding new dolls or creating a fresh theme.

Golu is much more than festive decoration. It is a beautiful combination of devotion, storytelling, craftsmanship and family tradition.

Every display has a story to tell. And when the creator chooses a meaningful theme, the arrangement becomes an opportunity to communicate an idea through art.

That is precisely what makes Rajee Ramani's display so special.

Check the video here: https://youtu.be/eKTtVTjrh9k

Panch Mahabhuta: Celebrating the Five Elements of Nature

The theme chosen by Rajee Ramani was Panch Mahabhuta, an ancient Indian philosophical concept that describes five fundamental elements associated with the natural world and the human experience.

These five elements are Prithvi (Earth), Jal (Water), Agni (Fire), Vayu (Air) and Akash (Space).

Each represents a different aspect of existence, and together they remind us of our deep connection with nature.

1. Prithvi — Earth

Earth represents stability, strength, nourishment and the foundation of life. It gives us the ground beneath our feet, the food we eat and the materials from which we build our homes.

In a festive display, the element of Earth can be expressed through natural textures, plants, soil, stones, earthy colours and miniature landscapes.

It reminds us that, despite our increasingly modern lifestyles, we remain deeply dependent on the natural world.

2. Jal — Water

Water symbolises life, purity, renewal and movement. From the rivers that sustain our civilisation to the water we use in our homes, its presence is essential to almost everything we do.

Water-themed decorations may use flowing forms, blue hues, miniature water bodies and creative representations of rivers or rain.

This element also invites us to reflect on the importance of conserving water — a resource we often take for granted until it becomes scarce.

3. Agni — Fire

Fire represents energy, transformation, warmth and illumination. In Indian traditions, it holds a special place in rituals, lamps and celebrations.

The glow of a diya during Navratri beautifully captures the spirit of Agni. Light transforms a space, creates an atmosphere and symbolically reminds us of the triumph of knowledge over ignorance.

In a Golu arrangement, warm colours, lamps and representations of sacred fire can bring this element to life.

4. Vayu — Air

Air is invisible, yet its presence is essential to life. It represents breath, movement and the vital energy that connects living beings to their surroundings.

Although we cannot see air itself, we experience it in a breeze, the movement of leaves and the gentle sway of branches.

Vayu reminds us to value something that sustains us every moment without demanding our attention. It also brings to mind the need to protect the quality of the air we breathe.

5. Akash — Space

Akash represents space, vastness and the expanse in which everything exists. It is the element that gives room for movement, growth and connection.

Of the five elements, space is perhaps the most difficult to represent visually. Yet it offers enormous scope for imagination through celestial motifs, stars, the sky and thoughtful use of open space.

It also offers a lovely metaphor for life: just as everything needs space to exist, people need room to think, learn, explore and grow.

Together, these five elements offer a reminder of the relationship between humanity and nature. They also make a wonderfully meaningful theme for a Navratri Golu decoration.

Months of Planning Behind One Beautiful Display

One of the most striking things about an elaborate festive display is that visitors usually see only the finished result.

They admire the arrangement, notice the details, take photographs and appreciate the overall beauty. What they may not see is the work that went into creating it.

Rajee Ramani's Panch Mahabhuta Golu was the result of months of planning and collecting items for the display. Every theme-based presentation requires thought: what to include, how to represent an idea, which objects to collect and how to bring everything together in a harmonious arrangement.

Finding suitable pieces can itself become a project. Some items may be collected over time, while others need to be sourced or prepared specifically for the occasion. The creator must then decide how the different elements will work together to tell a coherent story.

It takes patience to plan something over several months, particularly when the final display is meant to look effortless and beautiful.

And that is the fascinating thing about creativity. The final creation may occupy a corner of a room for a few festive days, but the thought, anticipation and effort behind it stretch far beyond those days.

Rajee's work deserves appreciation not only for the finished display but also for the dedication that brought it into existence.

What Motivates Someone to Put in So Much Effort?

When I asked Rajee what motivated her to undertake such an elaborate project, her answer was simple yet meaningful.

She explained that it adds a new dimension to her daily routine. It brings excitement into her life.

I found this thought particularly interesting.

Most of us follow fairly predictable routines. Our days are filled with familiar responsibilities, household tasks, work, family commitments and the many little things that keep life running smoothly.

Routine gives our lives structure, but too much sameness can sometimes make the days blur into one another.

Having a creative project to look forward to changes that experience.

Suddenly, there is something new to think about. There are ideas to explore, objects to find, plans to make and details to perfect. An ordinary day acquires a little purpose beyond its usual responsibilities.

Perhaps an item needs to be sourced. Perhaps a new idea emerges while looking at something completely unrelated. Perhaps an arrangement does not look quite right and needs to be reworked.

Each small decision becomes part of the adventure.

And long before the festival arrives, the creator has already experienced the pleasure of anticipation, discovery and achievement.

The joy is not limited to the day the display is completed. It begins months earlier, with the very first idea.

Hobbies That Add Meaning to Everyday Life

Rajee's answer made me think about the role hobbies and personal projects play in our lives.

We often think of hobbies as activities we pursue when we have spare time. But perhaps we should look at them differently.

A hobby can give structure to our free time, stimulate our imagination and encourage us to keep learning. It can introduce us to new people, new ideas and new skills.

Not every hobby needs to generate income. Not every activity needs to become a business, win a prize or attract an audience.

Sometimes, doing something simply because it brings us happiness is reason enough.

A person who enjoys gardening may spend weeks planning a little patch of flowers. Someone who loves cooking may experiment with a traditional recipe. Another may collect miniature objects, paint, read, write, travel or create beautiful festive decorations.

The end result matters, of course. But the process has its own rewards.

There is satisfaction in seeing an idea take shape through one's own effort. There is excitement in learning something new. And there is a quiet pleasure in having something personal to look forward to.

Rajee's Golu display is a lovely example of how a creative pursuit can make ordinary life more engaging.

You Don't Need a Grand Project to Find Joy

It would be easy to look at an elaborate display like Rajee's and think that such creativity requires considerable time, money, space or a large collection of decorative objects.

But the underlying idea is much simpler.

We can all find something that adds a little excitement to our routine.

It could be trying a new recipe, growing herbs on a balcony, documenting family memories, learning a musical instrument, making festive decorations, joining a reading group or finally beginning that creative project we have postponed for years.

The scale does not matter as much as the enthusiasm we bring to it.

A small project pursued with genuine interest can be more fulfilling than an ambitious activity undertaken only to impress others.

The important thing is to have something that belongs to us — something that engages our minds and gives us the pleasure of creating, learning or discovering.

Festivals provide wonderful opportunities for such pursuits because they connect personal creativity with shared traditions.

And when our efforts bring joy to others as well, the happiness becomes even more rewarding.

A Celebration of Tradition, Creativity and the Human Spirit

As I admired Rajee Ramani's Panch Mahabhuta Golu display, I saw more than an attractive Navratri decoration.

I saw the outcome of months of enthusiasm, planning, collecting and creating. I saw how an ancient concept could inspire a contemporary festive presentation. Most importantly, I heard a reminder that we do not have to wait for special occasions to make life interesting.

Sometimes, we can create that excitement ourselves.

A festival may provide the occasion, a traditional art form may provide the medium, and a meaningful theme may provide the inspiration. But it is the passion of the person behind the creation that brings everything to life.

Thank you, Rajee, for sharing your creativity with our society and for reminding us that a little passion can add a whole new dimension to everyday living.

May we all find something that makes us look forward to tomorrow with curiosity and enthusiasm.

After all, life is not made up only of the big milestones we celebrate. It is also shaped by the little projects, personal passions and moments of happiness that give our ordinary days their special meaning.

And sometimes, all it takes is a beautiful idea — and the willingness to spend a few months bringing it to life.

And Perhaps, It Is Time for Me to Begin Something New!

Meeting Rajee and seeing her beautiful creation has left me thinking about my own life. Retirement had gently settled me into a comfortable routine. Life was peaceful, relaxed and pleasantly predictable. No deadlines to chase, no targets to meet, no urgent reason to step out of my comfort zone. And honestly, there is a certain charm in living life at your own pace!

But somewhere between admiring her display and listening to what motivated her, a thought took root in my mind. What if life after retirement could be more than simply enjoying the freedom we worked so hard for? What if we could add a little excitement, a new challenge, or a creative pursuit to our otherwise comfortable days?

Rajee's Golu reminded me of the Japanese concept of Ikigai — a reason to get up in the morning, something that gives our days meaning and makes us look forward to what lies ahead.

And no, I am not suggesting that I suddenly start planning an elaborate Golu display months in advance! But perhaps I could find something of my own to pursue with enthusiasm. Something that makes me curious, gets my creative juices flowing and gives me a little project to look forward to.

At this stage of life, we have earned the right to relax, but we haven't lost the ability to discover, learn or create. Perhaps the secret lies in enjoying our comfort without becoming too comfortable!

So, thank you, Rajee, for unknowingly giving me a little nudge. Your beautiful display has inspired me to look at my own routine differently. I don't know exactly what my next adventure will be, but I do know that I want to try something new.

After all, retirement may mean stepping away from a career, but it need not mean retiring from curiosity, creativity or the joy of becoming something more than we were yesterday.

And who knows? Perhaps the next time I write about someone else's inspiring creation, I will have a little story of my own to share!

Here's to new beginnings, at any age. 🌿


Frequently Asked Questions About Golu Decoration for Navratri

1. What is Golu decoration during Navratri?

Golu is a traditional Navratri display of dolls and figurines arranged on steps or platforms. It commonly features deities, mythological scenes, cultural representations and miniature settings, combining devotion with artistic expression.

2. What is the Panch Mahabhuta theme?

Panch Mahabhuta refers to five fundamental elements in Indian philosophy: Prithvi (Earth), Jal (Water), Agni (Fire), Vayu (Air) and Akash (Space). These elements represent different aspects of nature and existence.

3. How can I create a meaningful Golu decoration at home?

Begin with a theme that interests you, plan the arrangement, gather suitable dolls and decorative objects, and organise them to tell a story. Natural materials, miniature landscapes, traditional figurines and creative lighting can make the display more engaging.

4. How early should I plan a themed Navratri Golu display?

The preparation time depends on the scale and complexity of the display. A simple arrangement may take a few days, while an elaborate themed presentation may benefit from several weeks or months of planning and collecting materials.

5. Why are creative hobbies important in everyday life?

Creative hobbies provide enjoyment, stimulate the mind, encourage learning and give us something meaningful to anticipate. They can bring variety and a sense of accomplishment to an otherwise predictable routine.

A little thought for the day: What is one thing you could begin today that would give your everyday routine a new spark of excitement?

If you enjoyed this story, share it with someone who believes that life becomes richer when we keep learning, creating and following our passions.

Neerja Bhatnagar

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Wednesday, 21 October 2026

Living in Orchid Harmony: Can People Managing The Affairs Bring Peace To The Society?

 


Sometimes, the biggest change in a residential society isn't a new facility, a grand celebration or a beautiful decoration. It's the way people speak to one another.

Over the past few months, I have noticed a welcome change in the atmosphere at Orchid Harmony. We have had a new society committee for almost a year now, and one of the first things that has caught my attention is the tone of communication.

Questions are being met with positive and respectful responses. There seems to be less friction in everyday interactions, and a certain calmness is becoming noticeable in the society. (I am very good at observation 😊)

It may sound like a small thing, but if you have lived in a residential complex for any length of time, you will understand why it matters.

A society is not just a collection of flats, lifts, parking spaces and common areas. It is a place where people share their everyday lives. And when communication improves, the experience of living together improves too.

I am not suggesting that everything has suddenly become perfect. Every community has its differences, and a committee has plenty of practical matters to handle. But a respectful beginning is always encouraging.

And then came Navratri and Dussehra, giving us more reasons to look at our community life a little more closely.

Navratri, 2026, OH.
Pic Credit - Deepali Avinash Pandey

Navratri in Gujarat: A Memory From 2003

I still remember my first Navratri in Gujarat after coming here in 2003.

The celebrations I remember were simple, joyful and closely connected to the local culture. There was music, dancing and a feeling of participation. The charm lay in the celebration itself, rather than in how elaborate the arrangements were.

This year's Navratri celebrations at Orchid Harmony brought back some of that feeling.

For the first time in my experience of our society's Navratri celebrations, local folk songs played throughout the night. I particularly liked this aspect. Gujarati folk music has its own character, and it gave the celebration a cultural identity that felt refreshing.

Pic Credit - Ruchi Gupta

In the last decade, I often felt that the Garba celebrations had gradually moved towards loud, filmi music, sometimes losing the very soul of the festival in the process. Garba is not just about dancing to a fast beat; it is rooted in Gujarat's folk traditions, devotion and community spirit. The traditional songs carry a cultural connection that goes beyond entertainment. That is why hearing local folk songs throughout the night this year felt so refreshing. It brought back a sense of authenticity and reminded me that sometimes, returning to our roots is the best way to celebrate a tradition.

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The event was essentially for the residents and their families, without outsiders being brought in to swell the crowd. It felt like a community celebration in the true sense: people coming together to enjoy a festival in their own neighbourhood, unlike the last few years. 

We often assume that a successful event must be bigger, louder or more elaborate than the previous one. But perhaps the real charm of Navratri lies in its music, traditions and the pleasure of celebrating together.

With 2 heroines, ready to hit the floor. I am not a Garba enthusiast.

Sometimes, less really is more.

What do you enjoy most about Navratri — traditional folk music, Garba, the decorations, or simply being with family and friends?

Write in the comments.

From Poori-Aloo to Fafda-Jalebi: How Gujarat Changed My Dussehra!

One of the biggest changes Gujarat brought into my festive life was Dussehra and its very special association with fafda-jalebi!

Coming from North India, my idea of festival food was quite different. Festivals meant pakka khana (UP style) — poori, kachori -aloo, kaddu, arbi, raita or dahi vada, etc. A festival without a proper poori-kachori kind of meal? That was difficult to imagine!

So, when I first experienced Dussehra in Gujarat, I remember wondering, “Achha, but where is the festive food? How can a festival feel complete without poori-kachori?”

The GarbaVibe

For the first year or two, I did miss those familiar festive meals. But slowly, as they say, when you live somewhere, you begin to absorb a little of its culture, one delicious bite at a time!

And now, after all these years in Ahmedabad, my Dussehra doesn't feel complete without fafda-jalebi. What once seemed unusual has become a tradition I look forward to.

Perhaps this is the beauty of living in a different part of our country. We don't necessarily abandon our old traditions; we make room for new ones. And before we realise it, the two become part of our own story.

Fusion, after all, is a wonderful way to grow — in food, in culture and in life!

And here's a fascinating part of this Gujarati tradition. Fafda-jalebi is not just a festive favourite; it is big business too.

According to a report published by The Times of India in October 2024, Ahmedabad consumed an estimated ₹200 crore worth of fafda and jalebi on Dussehra that year. 

For 2026, a report by The Economic Times published in October 20 cited an estimate that Gujarat's Dussehra fafda-jalebi sales could exceed ₹500 crore, with Ahmedabad alone accounting for an estimated ₹200 crore. These are reported estimates, not audited final sales figures. 

Now, that is quite a lot of fafda and jalebi for one festival!

From my North Indian poori-aloo memories to my Gujarati fafda-jalebi tradition, my Dussehra story is a small reminder that sometimes the best part of discovering a new culture is finding something new to love—without losing what we loved before.

Tell me, what is the one festive food you simply cannot do without? Is it poori-aloo, gujiya, fafda-jalebi, or something else entirely? I would love to know! In Gujarat, Dussehra and fafda-jalebi are a familiar combination. For many people, the festival would hardly feel complete without this traditional treat!

Share your views. Let's start a conversation.

Dussehra in Orchid Harmony: The Fafda-Jalebi Lesson

Fafda, Jalebi And Me

This year, Orchid Harmony arranged packets of fafda and jalebi for residents at a nominal payment of ₹20 per packet, with a limit of six packets per flat.

Compared with previous years, when the quantity of fafda-jalebi available was unlimited, this was a more structured approach. The distribution arrangements were planned, but there was one problem: the waiting time was much longer than expected. 

From what I observed, the difficulty appeared to be with the pace of production rather than the basic idea of distributing packets.

It is a useful lesson for future events. Even a well-planned distribution system can run into trouble if the supplier cannot prepare the required quantity quickly enough.

For the next Dussehra, an advance estimate of demand, a realistic production schedule and coordination with the supplier could make the experience smoother.

The intention behind the arrangement was good. With a little refinement, it could work even better next time.

After all, when a festive treat is organised for the community, the happiest outcome is one in which everyone gets a fair opportunity to enjoy it.

Another piece of information I received while writing the blog is that the staff of the society did not get any fafda and jalebi, which is a failure on the vendor's side. This is not a good thing. 

Decorations: Can we bring a little more creativity?

Now comes the part where I feel there is a big room for improvement.

The decorations at the celebrations did not quite appeal to me. To my eyes, the setup had more of a village wedding feel than the look of a thoughtfully designed festive space for a residential community.

I also missed attractive photo booths or backdrops where families could stop for a picture. In these times of social media, these have become a fun part of community celebrations, especially when children and families want to preserve memories of the occasion.

The Garba Floor - Pic credit - Ruchi Gupta

I am not suggesting that we need expensive decorations or extravagant installations. A little imagination can go a long way.

A well-designed Gujarati-themed backdrop, traditional motifs, colourful fabric, diyas or a creative festive corner could make the space more inviting without requiring a huge budget.

The aim should not be to compete with commercial events. It should be to create a setting that reflects the spirit of the festival and gives residents another reason to smile.

Perhaps this is one area where a little creative input from residents could make a real difference in future celebrations.

A word about the food stalls

Food stalls were also part of the celebrations. I did not personally try any of the food items, so I cannot comment on their quality.

I did hear some residents express reservations about the food, and I am recording that observation without drawing my own conclusions.

There is a difference between personal experience and feedback received from others, and I think it is important to keep that distinction clear.

Still, resident feedback can be useful when future food stalls and vendors are being selected. A little attention to quality, hygiene, variety and value for money can make food an enjoyable part of any community event.

What matters most in a residential society?

When I look back at this year's Navratri and Dussehra celebrations, my overall experience has been positive.

There are things that can be improved: the availability of fafda-jalebi, the design of the decorations and perhaps the planning around food stalls. These are practical matters that can be addressed with better preparation and feedback.

But what I find most encouraging is the change in the everyday atmosphere of Orchid Harmony.

Respectful communication may not make headlines, but it can make a genuine difference to how people feel about the place they call home.

We may not always agree with our neighbours, committee members or the decisions taken by the society. That is natural. What matters is whether we can express our views and ask questions without turning every difference into a conflict.

A good residential community does not need everyone to think alike. It needs people to treat one another with consideration.

The new committee has made a promising beginning in this respect, at least from my experience. I hope this positive approach continues, along with thoughtful planning and a willingness to learn from each event.

The real success of a society celebration is not just how the event looks on the day. It is also how people feel while participating in it — and the memories they carry home.

Over to you

I would love to know what you think.

What makes a residential society a genuinely good place to live?

Is it efficient management, well-organised festivals, good facilities, friendly neighbours, or the simple comfort of being treated with respect?

And if you live in Gujarat, do you remember the simpler Navratri celebrations of earlier years?

Share your thoughts in the comments. After all, every community has its own story, and it is interesting to learn how others experience life where they live.

Here is hoping for more peaceful interactions, joyful festivals and better community experiences at Orchid Harmony.

There was a Golu display in the society; I will share it in my next post. 

Neerja Bhatnagar


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Saturday, 5 September 2026

OH 22 - WhatsApp Warriors

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Life is full of challenges, and the reaction to any situation shows the character, upbringing, skills, capacities and human capabilities of an individual. Any challenge or problem can be a blessing in disguise, and it's all about attitude.

Life's challenges usually seem like inconveniences when they interrupt our schedules or get in the way of something we want to do. Everyone wants a routine and happy life. Unexpected challenges are never welcomed. And when they happen, it usually means a major delay, adds learning curve, greater expenses or some other unplanned complications. When we are focused on results, it is hard to appreciate the detours caused by new challenges.

Life is always posing challenges to everyone, whether small or big. How does one respond to daily life? Does one panic and become frantic easily or stay positive and energetic? Should small problems be made bigger, or should big problems be made small and dissolved into nothing? How we face the normal and somewhat not-so-normal events of each day is generally how we will face the bigger challenges.

Why am I pondering about it? Today's (long back in 2020) water problem and the residents' reactions in OH motivated me to analyse human behaviour. Some reactions were cool, and some were very hot and nonsensical. I am surprised at the residents' basic understanding of community living. Being in a cooperative society means being equal partners in taking responsibilities and tackling the challenges.

Some comments like: society maintenance to pay ki hai, yeh kyon? 
What is society maintenance, and who is being paid? 
Common sense: to the society. 
Who are stakeholders in society? 
Everybody. 
So why blame the people who have taken the reins by coming to the forefront? 
Someone has to come forward and take up a leadership position and get the society's work done. 

Let's look at some of the qualities of people who become negative and panic versus people who respond positively and energetically. Panicky people don't have control over their mental energies. Because their minds are unfocused, they exaggerate events. Their confusion complicates things, and even small challenges appear to be big problems. They usually react emotionally to situations, so they easily become irritable, anxious, and excitable. Because of their emotionality, people who panic are often unreliable and are unable to take appropriate action.

Negative people make everything a problem. They generate an incredible amount of mental and physical stress. When anything comes up that disturbs their comfort zone, they think and say things like, "It's too difficult. I can't do it. I never did it before. I don't know how. Why is this happening to me?"

Succumbing to negative emotional states creates nothing but more negative reactions, such as jealousy, hatred, blame, fear, and depression. That helps neither us, the situation, nor the people around us. The moment negative emotions hit us, we have to see the urgency of generating some positive energy instead and start doing something good for the environment and others.

If we are often frantic, we should ask ourselves if we have the habit of procrastinating. Procrastinating itself contributes to a frantic mind. How? If we habitually postpone doing what needs to be done--whether in our physical surroundings, our health, our relationships, or whatever--neglect eventually catches up with us. If we are not used to taking timely action and life finally forces us to get things done, we can easily become frantic and filled with worries.
This was written 6 years ago. I am posting it now as I am reviving this blog. few years ago, we thought of moving ahead, and I stopped writing for this blog. But God planned another route, and we are here to stay. So here I am, reviving my blog.

Tuesday, 5 May 2020

OH21 Elections and responsibilities of residents.

So, the 2nd elected committee of OH which brings in mostly new faces and few from the earlier elected members has wound up their tenure in almost 1 year and little more. We in OH are seeing 3rd election in a span of 3 years. The election date is fixed on Jan 12th.

The elections in a society should be fought for the betterment of the place rather than making it a political issue, which has been done in earlier elections. In last election, the popular election issue was created by one of the group was gujarati vs non-gujarati. We have studied divide and rule by Britishers and here it's being used as a regionalism tool.
In the last committee, the members used to respond to the issues raised by residents in a very rude way which is not expected in the civil societies. Responses like - "we are not paid for this job" is neither expected nor acceptable.
Why does an RWA  committee is elected?
As the name suggests - Residents Welfare Society. So people who win the election should be humble and have a bent of social services.
What do I as a resident of OH want? I want a clean surrounding and all facilities in the premises in  excellent condition.

With not many people eager to take part in the election process neither as voters nor as candidates, the democracy fails. Democratic process need aware, responsible and responsive people. It's really surprising to see this in a place where literacy rate is 100%. 
Why are we not responsible towards our own society? If I can see the degradation in everything in OH - the housekeeping, security, maintenance of activity rooms, T T room or gym, others are also seeing it as it's evident from our small conversations here and there.

While I am still writing this post, the voting is over and results are declared. A new team with few old and few fresh faces have been elected. In a society with total votes of 384, approximately 135 votes were polled. 😔😏

The two most important office bearers are -
Mr. Ankur Agarwal - Chairman
Mr. Sandeep Mathur - General Secretary

Good luck and expect better upkeep !

Friday, 1 November 2019

OH 20 The Happenings in August to October

I have seen my reluctance to come to this blog of mine as nothing much is happening here in OH. My last post was in November 2018. I have come again now in September 2019.

The sky opened up in August like  never before in Ahmedabad. OH and around had seen heavy rains. The rains have brought mosquitoes and uncontrolled growth of vegetation. There was no fumigation done all through , which should be  a proactive action from the society management. The upkeep and maintenance has gone down by few notches. 😏😔😢😡

August 15, 2019

OH has celebrated Independence Day on August 15, 2019. The same old practices of chairman unfurling the flag. His marching towards the flag along with the guards is a real funny scene as none of them are in sync. Why do it then? Lots of speeches and patriotic outbursts. 😊 We need to change the way of celebrating this day. This one day patriotism serves no purpose. How about taking a step ahead and do something concrete? Let's keep this day for doing something enjoyable. Do we really need to write patriotism on sleeves and show it to the world? It would be a great idea to have a good play enacted by the residents (I can direct one 😊 ) in the evening or a live music programme to celebrate this day of independence. Something out of the box entertainment ideas.

After flag hoisting, snacks were served. I didn't join the party, so don't know about the quality and what was served. But I can see crowd swelling many folds at the time of snacks.

September 2, 2019

Ganesh Chaturthi was observed and a temple was resurrected in back lawns of society, near the club. Ganeshji came, stayed for few days and gone. He sat alone for most of the time. The aarti time saw lots of hustle and bustle in morning and evening. Many activities were curated for children. I being a non ritualistic person avoid being part of such religious celebrations directly. The beauty of living in an apartment building is that you can enjoy the action around by not being directly involved and still feel being part of the festivities.

September 29, 2019

And then comes the festive 9 nights of dancing from 29th September. A Navratri committee is created which sees all the arrangements and celebrations. I can sense that most of the members of this committee are being repeated as one can see the dearth of new ideas and repetitiveness which has become boring now.

The 9 nights of fun have gone by and the garba enthusiasts are lighter by few kilograms while others have updated themselves on socialising. The food served by OH foodprenuers was a good move to serve a clean home cooked food  and support the local enterprenuers. The variety and quality of food this time was better.

On navami, society served dinner. Dinner menu was soup, paneer, mix vegetable, boondi raita (sweet) , daal, rice , poori and tandoori roti. Gulab jamun  and ice-cream were the 2 desserts served.  Like last  year, only 2 counters were created which resulted in long lines. Why can't more counters be created for the convenience of diners? And a non stop announcement about no wastage of food and keep the society clean was a pain in the neck.  Anyway food tasted fine and I am not thinking about the hygienic conditions maintained while preparing and cooking food. 🤐

Every flat was given 4 dinner coupons of Rs.250 each. But any additional coupon can be bought for Rs. 100. Is there something to be read between the lines? Just wondering "why so". 😕

8 October 2019

On Dussehra morning, as per the ritual , fafda- jalebi was served early morning from 8 am. As the organisers were making an issue about taking them home and want people to eat there, we give it a miss as we can't eat this so early in the morning. But why are they making this issue is beyond my comprehension. They can stop taking their crockery  back home but if some one gets it in their own dabbas , why stop it? Or why not serve them in paper plates? I guess, those in the authority can feel power by depriving others. As per sociologist, this is the trait of very poor leadership. Denying and depriving others while in decision making position is an example of leadership gone kaput. 

Tuesday, 13 November 2018

OH19 September -November 2018

I always maintain, that a society as colourful as OH gives umpteen opportunities to study the human nature. I love to interpret the way people react under any circumstance. Different people react differently under similar situations help in understanding the effect of surroundings, bringing up and experiences one has gone through.

OH is like mini India, with people from far east to north and south living here. It's cosmopolitan crowd and people working with local companies to auto giants, technical, financial, HR or services , Gujaratis and other states people all are living here.

Navratri Celebration:

This year's Navratri celebrations were from Oct 10th - Oct 18. Here are some glimpses:











Every day, Domino's Pizza and few other food stalls were available for  garba enthusiasts. Few stalls were set up by the women entrepreneurs of the society. They come late around 9 PM, so early diners like me missed the food flavours. Or is it the other way round? The stalls missed some valuable customers  too.  On 18th evening, society served a sumptuous dinner to all residents. The food was good and crowd management was better this year than last years as sufficient counters were set up.

Overall, it's an improvement over last years' navratri celebrations. Certain aspects which need attention in my view are:

  • The entry should be manned in the garba venue.
  •  Entry of outsiders need to be restricted and ticketed. Any relative or friend of resident is an outsider. 
  • Instead of DJ's, it's time to get live music every day.
  • As residents are increasing, more sitting needs to be created.
  • Volume should be within acceptable range. 
  • No film songs should be played. Let the fervour of the festival be kept in its pure form.
  • Banners placement need improvement.
  • New people are needed in the core committee which is organising the navratri function as no really new ideas are seen since last few years.
  • As public money is used, people have every right to know how their money is used. Detailed accounts should be shared with the residents.
Election:


 In the AGM on 30th September, the conversation and discussion which I can see from my balcony on the 7th floor was nothing less than a rowdy crowd. A very disgraceful behavior of the people who were present. Without going into much details, which frankly I do not have  as I was not present in the AGM. Re-election were announced, which were completed on 28th October.

As I said earlier, OH represents mini India. The participation in AGM and then in election is a proof of it. People were not responsible to caste their votes or participate in open discussion forums for the betterment of the place which they own. This time, the election bites and results were shared in videos, which made it interesting.

There were two groups which were in the fray. The old group with few changes and a new group, which have few candidates from the last election.
This time, candidates from both the groups have won. The new group has won 8 seats while 3 from the old group have overcome incumbency factor. During canvassing, the similar models of "divide and rule" was also seen. Most of it was  a replica of assembly or  Loksabha elections.
This is the reason enough to have some role models in the country. Real role models, not politicians or ministres.


The management committee of a housing society has 11 elected members. This is the 2nd committee of OH. The tenure is 2 years. In the new committee 8 were new faces and 3 from the earlier committee. As they say, change is the only constant and its a must to grow and bring in new ideas. I wish good luck to the newly elected committee and hope they do things in the larger interest of OH.


Diwali:

This Diwali,the festival of lights OH was lighted in colourful lights. It has created a festive atmosphere and I loved it.

Diwali is now not only the festival of lights but also a festival of noise and pollution too.It's a torture for pets, senior citizens and sick people. Few mornings after Diwali are all polluted with smog. 

This Diwali ended with a very sad note. An OH family out on vacation by road to visit their extended family in Haryana met with an accident and lost their young teenage son , a student of class 10th. Deepak was my student. He is coming to study maths from me from last year. Extremely joyful and pleasing boy. My heartfelt condolences to family. Though no amount of condolences can ever sooth the pains of the family. Time is a great healer, it's said. But some pains are never healed. :(

Winter is setting in Ahmedabad. We are outside the main city and hence the environment around OH is less polluted. There are lots of labour staying nearby as a new project is on, in Applewoods. They burn wood for cooking and for warmth at night. So, smog is setting in.

Applewoods Township:
We have shifted to this township in OH, almost 4 years ago in December 2014. The deterioration in the cleanliness and upkeep of township which is the responsibility of Applewoods has really nosedived. The streets are not cleaned for weeks, the pathways by the roads are covered with vegetation and rubbish.Polythenes and non usable items are lying all around. The people around throw away cooked chapatis in stacks for dogs or stray animals, which can be seen all around. Throwing chapatis will not bring any good luck folks.
This is all as of now. Goodnight folks!! 

Monday, 17 September 2018

OH18 -Independence Day to Ganesh Visarjan

Orchid harmony is now a living community of almost 1000 residents with more than 300 occupied flats. It's my 4th year here and I have seen lots of human emotions and characters here. It's like mini India and one can witness the similar kind of politics and other flavours as one comes across in national news. :)

Orchid Harmony is a cosmopolitan community with representation from different parts of the country. I have avoided the word "states" as it's feel is of a divided  country . The  belonging to state is highlighted  and does not show any  association with the country. Intellectuals and politicians prefer to divide the country and then rule the divided masses, the formula used by all those who have ruled India for a thousand years.

Independence day, the August 15th, 2018 was celebrated with routine flag hoisting and serving of hot bhajias and ladoos. As usual, the flag hoisting was witnessed mostly by few senior citizens and young children in the morning. The number of attendees increased four folds on free servings of  bhajia and ladoos counter. Ladoos were more preferred than bhajias, in-spite of the calories count , after all the life is happier with the calories. :)  I avoided both, though it was free and I also pay "maintenance" and it was served from the society fund. This thought is a big motivator to eat free meals and have been loudly shared on most of the public platforms.

No comments on right or wrong attitude. Just wondering if any body ever worried about the kind of offspring or society being created by throwing such thoughts to the children ? People in general are very unabashed about their "weight throwing" behaviour.

I remember an incident which happened in society almost an year ago. Few residents with their wives were shouting at the elected representatives of society in a way which in no way was a sign of civilized interaction. I am sure their young children would have hanged their heads in shame if they were shown the videos of that day.

Passing the baton to young ones!
Anyway, let's come back to Independence day celebrations in society. Flag hoisting by the Chairman of the society, followed by national anthem and few items by senior citizens with "bhashanbaazi" types messages from anyone who gets hold of mike. Time has come to change the way we celebrate the festivals of national importance at society level. To my mind, the better way to celebrate independence and republic day is to involve children in some society building activity like cleaning the dead corners of society or garden  to inculcate the sharing of social responsibilities rather than repeating the history umpteen times.



Getting acquainted with the colours of Indepenence







Evening has seen the children performances on theme "patriotic". How about having a long play incorporating all the entertaining elements to have a continuous story?  :)


Ganesh Chaturthi in mid September is also a community function and has seen an increased fervour and favours with society residents. This is mainly a Marathi festival and in earlier years, Marathi Manus of OH were in forefront in planning and celebrating the Ganesh Chaturathi. Things were different this year. I had come to know that they backed out to force some demands.

Anyway, Lord Ganesha's presence is so overwhelming that all these things become non-entities. Lord Ganesha stayed in the OH for three days. Lots of people participated and "chappan bhogs" were curated for all the three days of  "bhagwan's" stay with in the premises. Two times "aarti" every day and action filled evenings saw participation from some enthusiastic residents. Stalls were set up by vendors to provide food items were very popular with the crowd in the evening.

Ganesh Chaturathy is more about social interactions and activities than a religious

I  did not participated in the pooja and aarti as my dialogue with the Lord is very personal and I am not a ritualistic. Since my apartment is strategically located and I can see everything going on in the garden, which is the main venue of all the activities, it feels being there without going out.

Third day was the day of visarjan and time to bid farewell to Lord till He comes next year. Dhol, baja, sindoor khela and garba dancers accompanied lord Ganesha to Visarjan venue.

As He leaves OH to come next year, I wish He takes away all the negativity from the hearts of people and society so that residents live in harmony and peace. Amen!!!
Taking Lord Ganesha for Visarjan - View from my balcony.
Few people also bring in Ganesha home. A kitty party friend has invited to see his Ganesha idol and I along with 4 others have gone to visit her place. She has really made lots of effort and creativity in creating a beautiful look. Sharing the picture for all of you to rejoice!